Who Is Forming You? | The Power of Spiritual Formation

In this first episode of a new series on formation, I explore a question that has been shaping his own life: Who or what is forming you? I reflect on experiences in church, men’s ministry, and discipleship, and explains why conversations about leadership, purity, marriage, and responsibility—while important—don’t always answer the deeper question of who we are becoming. Drawing from the life of Jesus, this episode examines how our habits, relationships, communities, and daily practices quietly shape our character over time. Rather than offering a checklist for becoming a “better man,” this conversation invites listeners to consider what true spiritual formation looks like and how discipleship is ultimately about becoming more like Christ, not simply accumulating knowledge. Whether you’re navigating church hurt, reevaluating your spiritual life, or simply longing to grow in maturity, this episode offers a thoughtful invitation to examine the influences that are shaping your heart. ————————— Key Takeaways: - Formation is happening whether we recognize it or not. - Our habits shape our character long before our actions reveal it. - Discipleship is about becoming like Jesus, not merely learning about Him. - Spiritual maturity is revealed during seasons of pressure and difficulty. - Knowledge without transformation can produce pride instead of Christlikeness. - The people and voices we consistently listen to are shaping us. - Healthy community is essential for lasting spiritual formation.